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The Happy Wake Up
“Wake up early every morning with a smile that lasts all day”
The alarm gently awakes you with a loving romantic melody and a smile crosses your face as you think of the next sixteen hours of your day and all of the exciting possibilities that are in store for you.
You get up and go to the restroom to brush your teeth, and your smile widens even further as you anticipate the most cherished part of your day, what you have been dreaming of all night … You lift the covers of the bed and curl up beside your still drowsy partner spooning into their warm body and whispering, “good morning baby”.
The alarm that has awoken you is not a klaxon alerting you that you much rush through your morning routine to get out the door on time but is instead your “Love Alarm”.
This is an alarm that you have set to wake you up 15 minutes before you need to, and lets you know that you now have 15 precious minutes to spend with the one you love dreaming and sharing your plans for your upcoming day before you need to get up and start your morning routine.
This is a time for sharing, a time to start the day off in each others arms, relaxed in your love.
Early Wake Up … Starting Your Day With Love
The most important way to begin your day is with the warm embrace of the one you love, and a relaxing whispered conversation about your dreams, hopes, and desires for the upcoming day.
Set your alarm 15 minutes before you need to get up, and after brushing your teeth, dedicate those first few minutes of your day to your partner, and listen to the plans they have for the day, and share with them what you dream to accomplish.
By awaking before you absolutely need to, your time spent planning your day will not be rushed, and you will both have the opportunity to share with each other your goals, and stresses of the upcoming day.
By always knowing what is happening in your lovers upcoming day, you will be able to lovingly understand when a text is not quickly responded to, and you will be able to support your partner more thoroughly when you know ahead of time the challenges they are anticipating over the next several hours.
Communication is absolutely the most important part of your relationship, and by starting the day off with a quiet conversation filled with your plans and dreams, you will both begin the day in romantic bliss looking forward to your kisses goodnight when you are once again wrapped up in each others love.
It’s Not Always Easy
It is simple to decide to wake up early and talk excitedly with your partner about the upcoming day, but this special morning wake up that you share will not always be filled with visions of sugar plumbs, but will instead also include trials of the day ahead and that is perfectly okay.
This is not just the time to share with your partner the excitement that you have for the upcoming day but also to talk through the challenges you are expecting to face.
Not every little bit of your day is going to be smooth and easy, so if you plan ahead for the speed bumps that may arise, you will be able to brainstorm solutions to overcome any of the little challenges that you may have waiting ahead of you.
Having the time to pre plan, you will be much more effective and efficient in your decision making process when you do face a challenge that you have already anticipated. Rather than being in fear of the unknown, you will find your day much less stressful now that you have already planned ahead for the inevitable and prepared a concise roadmap of best practices to overcome the difficult situation ahead.
Sharing you fears as well as your planned successes, your loved one will more fully understand your changing moods and feelings throughout the day, and as the person in the world that you cherish more than anyone else, will be your support and comfort to help you through the rough spots.
Discussing challenges openly, you can help each other by creating insights and suggestions together that will find you both arriving at solutions that are far more creative and well reasoned than if you were struggling through a difficult situation on your own with little to no preplanning.
You always strive for equality with your partner, and it is one of the reasons that your relationship is so romantic and loving, but during your morning wake up, sometimes you will not have an equal amount of time in your conversation. Some days, your partner may have a challenge awaiting them that takes up all of your morning conversation as the two of you puzzle out the best way to achieve success, and other days you may be so excited about your upcoming day that the two of you lose track of the time laughing, and before you know it you have to start your morning routines. That’s okay, and that’s what it means to support each other in love and understanding…that’s sharing and unconditional love.
Be open and honest with your partner about the stresses and worries you have for your upcoming day and as with everything in your lives, you will tackle them together, with the strength of your love able to conquer any and all obstacles.
There Is No Time Limit On Love.
Each night you set your alarm to wake you up at a time that allows you to be on schedule and punctual for the upcoming day. A smile crosses your face as you set your alarm 15 minutes sooner than you need for your morning routine, as you look forward to the special time with your partner that your “Love Alarm” will afford you.
We have suggested 15 minutes for your special morning time with the one you love, but that is just a way to get you into the routine of getting up earlier than you absolutely have to, and a minimum amount of time necessary to share the upcoming plans of your day with your partner.
Once you get into the routine of waking early, you will undoubtedly find that this special time with the one you love is the precious highlight of your day, and you will want to increase the amount of time you have in each others arms sharing your dreams.
As with every good habit you wish to begin in your life, start out slow, and as the new routine becomes an integral part of your life, slowly allow yourself more time to enjoy your special new gift.
There is no time limit on your “Love Alarm” and it may not be long until you find your 15 minutes of loving conversation have now become the most cherished hour of your day, and one of the most loving that you spend with your partner each day.
Set your “Love Alarm” every day and ensure that you give yourselves enough time for a relaxed, and loving conversation about your upcoming day, and enough time to luxuriate in the warmth of the one you love as you share your days first romantic kiss.
Your romantic FairyTale begins each day with relaxing time spent in the arms of the one you love, talking and sharing romance, hopes, and dreams for the day ahead and for your lives together.
Romantic Reflections is a collection of thoughts and musings intended to add little touches of love and romance to our relationships creating a fairytale that will last forever.